Friday, February 14, 2020

Women don't fancy easy-to-seduce men

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How men play the mating game is fairly well understood. But the psychological tricks and ploys women might use to attract or deceive men are less clear.
Now, for the first time, psychologists have tested the potential for  to use predatory game-playing tactics.
Women, like men, can pick up clues a potential partner might be easy to seduce, manipulate, deceive or pressure into sex.
But unlike men, they don't find these cues that someone is 'easy', immature, intoxicated, or reckless attractive. Instead, women are attracted to good-looking, intelligent and flirty men, psychologists discovered.
"Research has focused almost entirely on men as perpetrators of sexual exploitation and women as victims," said Dr. Lora Adair at Brunel University London.
"But we found women can also figure out men's sexual exploitability based on signs they are drunk or a likely pushover."
From making the most of their looks to taking off rings, lying about their pay, job, or age, both sexes have a stash of strategies to get people into bed under false impressions.
When it comes to relationships, men and women are often after different things. And tricks or lies can get people what they want. Just as men may gain from pretending to be 'in love' with someone who puts commitment before consenting to sex, women may gain by using tricks and cheats to trap a man who's 'taken' or out of their league. For instance, they might pressure or con an attractive, genetically 'fit' married man into sex. That would be exploitative—the woman's winning an  to the man's cost. He might lose out on chance to chase who he chooses, or face violent comeback from a jealous partner.
Evolutionary psychologist Dr Lora Adair on new research into women's potential to deceive, manipulate or pressure men into sex. Credit: Terrence Tiernan
Evolutionary psychologists wanted to see if women find signs of male sexual exploitability—such as flirtiness, booziness and immaturity—attractive and how they spot them.
Some 151 young heterosexual and bisexual female students at a US university were asked to rate 110 photos of men on how attractive they found them in the short term (casual sex) and long term (committed relationship), and how easy it would be to seduce, pressure, or deceive this man into sex. Each photo was coded for 'exploitability cues' such as being shy, young, sleepy, intoxicated, immature, or reckless.
"We found that women can identify men that would be easier to pressure, deceive, seduce, and/or sexually assault, just as men can identify such women. But unlike men, women do not find these cues attractive," says the study. The cues  look to exploit in women are likely different from the ones women would use to exploit men.
"Women aren't attracted to men that seem easy to manipulate or deceive," said Dr. Adair.
"By and large, we find no evidence at all of 'game-playing' or exploitative strategies in women's mating toolbox.
"What are women attracted to? Good health and interest. In short, women are interested in men that seem interested in them. Looking 'easy' isn't sexy, reciprocating her interest is."
He Looks "Easy" and She's Not Into It: Sexual Exploitation Cues and Attraction is published in Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences.Men sometimes act less interested in sex—in order to get it

More information: Lora Adair et al. He looks "easy" and she's not into it: Sexual exploitation cues and attraction., Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences (2020). DOI: 10.1037/ebs0000168

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